We all spend so much time, money, and effort making these huge life decisions as a means to an end… but how are we certain that we’re doing it right?
The world’s forever unanswered questions will always make me wonder: what does it all truly mean? How do I know what I want to do for the rest of my life? How do I know I’m even doing it right? Is it too late to change if I am doing it wrong? Can I go back or get a “re-do”?
I constantly ask myself these questions in my career path. Because after college, there aren’t any classes or schedules to help keep you on the right track. Well, crap. Looking back, I’m realizing the essence of college and how different the expectations are from any other grade or school.
1. In high school, it wasn’t “cool” to be in clubs, groups or organizations. Sports > all other extracurricular activities. In college, it’s essential to join groups, take yourself OUT of your comfort zone, network, branch out of your inner clique, and learn what works and what doesn’t. This is something I wish I had learned earlier on in college.
2. Even though students make great relationships and strong bonds with people throughout college and beyond, once graduation hits, they all become your competition in survival of the fittest (academically fit, that is). How do you maintain relationships after college without sabotaging your career? I’m intrigued to figure this out.
So why am I constantly worried about the future and all of its components? Because that’s exactly the way our society has brought us up, carefully guiding the education process as a vital one with steps along the way. If a solid education is the “means”, what is the “end”? Career, family, money? What I’m trying to say is that we could all use a little reminder from the Dalai Lama to rejuvenate, assess our priorities, and be spontaneous.







